Why awkward guys are the best

The guys who play in bands or have a signature shoe style. The guys who are never awkward and would never, ever be played by Hugh Grant in a movie about their life. I bite my lip. They blush. They look at their feet. Their emotions are obvious. You can tell they like you. They are good at self-deprecating humor as a result.

A good self-deprecating joke says so much. I prefer it to be math or science related. I like to imagine them seeing numerical patterns in the way people move towards the cheese and crackers at a party. My husband, who is extremely good at math, says this never happens to him. Niceness is so underrated.

In dealing with grandmothers, for example. And being on elevators with aggravated strangers. So it isn't something you're likely to outgrow or change overnight. But, he says you can simultaneously work on sharpening your social skills. He recommends breaking down the parts of social interactions into smaller segments, like manners, greetings, expectations, and saying good-bye. Then, observe others and practice new social strategies.

Over time, you may grow more comfortable in social situations. But Tashiro is quick to add that awkward people shouldn't feel compelled to change. So there's nothing wrong with just embracing the fact that you're a little awkward sometimes.

After all, it can be awesome. Top Stories. Top Videos. You can play it off as adorable. This makes you awesome to date, because you keep things fun and relaxed, not uptight and serious. Awkward girls are nice girls, and no matter how hot a full-scale bitch and a half might be, nice guys will naturally gravitate towards you over her every single time. You get overlooked by obnoxious d-bags. You come off as very down-to-earth. You have fascinating talents and interest to offset your awkwardness.

Instead, you actually developed skills and passions, which makes you interesting and easy to connect with — score! You make people feel at ease around you. Originally Posted by simon Notice how I capitalized so much. Inebriated Duck. Hate is too strong of a word in this context. I would say avoid. If it is not a desirable trait, why would one want to associate with it? I recently went out with a brainy type. I wouldn't call him awkward though. I like that he's smart and he has a good sense of humor too.

Because the thing women find most attractive in a man ain't his pecs, his bank account, his eyes, his height, or anything else like that. It's his self confidence, his ability to walk into a room and NOT look like a dog that's just had a haircut. And an awkward guy is the exact opposite of that.